LeadershipVolume 1 · Issue 2
Leading What You Have Not Healed
A short reflection for pastors, executives, and clinicians who carry others.

Professor Cheryll Holmes, PhD, PsyD, MDR
Founder and Professor of Relationship Science and Human Functioning™
June 16, 2026
3 min readPractitioner
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A short reflection for pastors, executives, and clinicians who carry others.
It is possible to lead well while still in repair. It is not possible to lead well while pretending the repair is finished. The pretense is what leaks — into tone, into decisions, into the people who cannot name why they feel unsteady around us.
“You are not required to be finished. You are required to be honest about where you are, and supervised where it matters.”
This is why the Academy requires reflection alongside instruction. A practitioner's interior life is not a private matter when other people's outcomes depend on it.
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Holmes, C. (2026). Leading What You Have Not Healed. Leadership, 1(2). Holmes Knowledge Center, Holmes Training Academy™.

